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Monday, 22 June 2009

6 days to departure ...

It's weird, I'm still not 100% sure that I'm going back to the UK... I mean I am, the tickets are booked an all! Kelsey and Paul have chatted all weekend and last week about how exciting it all is... Kelsey is doing the typical count down... Planning every day so that it's full of all the things he wants to do... places he wants to go, people he wants to see, food he wants to eat, apparently we have to stop at Mickie D's straight out of the airport!!! (lmao...)

But me ??? I'm not sure if I'm excited... apprehensive... nervous... Strange really, my shopping list is 2 x A4 pages long, my list of people to see is just as long and yet???

I'm feeling a bit bad about leaving mum here for 3 weeks... and Indi... etc... BUT is it maybe cos I'm scared that I get there and probably don't want to come back??? (sorry guys I know deep especially for me eh?)

I've still gotta decide on what clothes to take with me, the cases still gotta be packed and true to form Paul sends me a shopping list TODAY !!!! Men can't they think ahead??? Like I got nowt better to do than go shopping for him eh?

I mean, it's haircuts, waxing, nails etc. etc. etc. Don't you guys know what we women have to prioritise before we go on holiday??? Please!!!!!

I was sent this list via e-mail from one of my mates and thought I'd pass it on for you all to read. It was written by someone who had just rolled over to 90 years of age, it makes you think... then I thought maybe one day I should start my own list:
The 45 lessons life has taught me:

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick.
Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood.
But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie.
Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

42. The best is yet to come.

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

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